Brenda was born in Brunswick, Georgia, to the late Deacon Johnny Cuthbert, Sr., and Bessie Mae (Sullivan) Cuthbert, both of Carneghan, McIntosh County, Georgia. She served as Secretary of the Carneghan Emanuel Baptist Church Sunday School and joined the Cuthbert Singers Trio. The valedictorian of McIntosh County Academy (1982), she earned a B.S. in ManagementContinue Reading
left a message on April 14, 2021:
Thank God for the life of Brenda a Beautiful Warm and Kind Trail Blazer! #Class82
left a message on April 12, 2021:
Remembering A Beautiful Classmate....
left a message on April 11, 2021:
We remember Brenda as an energetic, enthusiastic, warm-hearted and compassionate cousin. She was an avid reader and a well-rounded person of various subjects. Her focus on her studies in high school led her to further her education and have a successful career. We will deeply miss her smile down here but we have faith that she is smiling with the angels in heavens. We pray her family will find peace and comfort in knowing God had a plan for her life and she will continue being a blessing to the lives she touched. Love from; Eugene Cuthbert and family, Harold Cuthbert and family, Herbert Cuthbert and family, Lillie Cuthbert Newsome and family, and Willie Cuthbert.
left a message on April 11, 2021:
Condolences Family. I meet Brenda when she was a member of Las Amiga,Inc.She was an unforgettably person.,So smart,friendly and a smile that would bring :blush: to every situation. She was a member of The Brenda Club (a group of six Brenda's in Las Amigas) We missed her when she became inactive,but never failed to mention her at our annual photo sessions at our Conclave.David may you and the family find comfort in the many memories you shared :heart:. RIP Brenda and be surrounded in ORCHIDS.
left a message on April 10, 2021:
David and McCaskill family ...Peace and prayer to you. Brenda...What a wonderful soul. What a wonderful Soror who always did things with a quiet sense of confidence. Never boastful, but ALWAYS purposeful. Definitely a QUEEN of the N.I.L.E. REST IN HEAVENLY PEACE IN HIS HANDS. :heart::small_red_triangle:
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
left a message on April 10, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Simply Elegant Spathiphyllum was purchased for the family of Brenda Valencia McCaskill.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Pretty Please was purchased for the family of Brenda Valencia McCaskill.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Prayers going up for Brenda, David and Family. Neighborhood will miss Brenda. Shall always remember great time bowling with my teammates.
Vernon Thompson
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda was a kind, gentle, caring, and beloved member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. who will be greatly missed by many. Sending my heartfelt condolences to David and the McCaskill family during this difficult time. Praying the fond memories of Brenda will sustain you and provide comfort in the days ahead.
Toni Ward, former member Cincinnati Alumnae Chapter
left a message on April 9, 2021:
A webcast video has been added.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda is “one of a kind”. We had lost touch with one another over the past years. I thought of her a few weeks ago while looking at some of my artwork. While we were working together, we became great friends and both of us started collecting art. Some of the same Charles Bibbs’ pieces! I will forever cherish the memories of the times we spent together - talking, laughing, eating, working, and crying. One of the most genuine and giving hearts of anyone I know.
To David and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers and may God give you comfort. Rest In Peace, Brenda.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 9, 2021:
David and family -
We are so sorry for your loss. We have very fond memories of the both of you, and so enjoyed talking over the fence so often. A few of my favorite memories, were the one time when Brenda’s brother was doing some yard work for you in the front, and Joe told Brenda something like “are you putting down yard clue to keep the stones down”...Joe of course was only kidding, but it gave us both a chuckle. Another memory was one of our visits in your backyard and I had brought Ginger over. She loved water, and you had a large water bowl for Chelsea, and Ginger tried to get in the bowl to lay down like it was a pool just for her, haha. We had some great memories, and I have so many lovely Longaberger baskets that I think of her when I use.
Please know you are in our thoughts, and we play that God gives you comfort and healing at this time.
Love,
Sandy, Joe, Matthew and Austin Robillard
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda was a kind neighbor that was one of the first people to welcome us to the neighborhood. She always had a lovely smile and a warm greeting when she walked her dog. Dave, you have my great sympathy for losing a wonderful soul mate. Stay safe and stay strong.
Paul Dorger
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Millennial Q.U.E.E.N.S, Spr. 2000 purchased the Tender Tribute for the family of Brenda Valencia McCaskill.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
I light a candle for my dear friend and Soror Brenda. We did so many things together which enlightened both our lives. I will miss you dear friend.:small_red_triangle::small_red_triangle::small_red_triangle::heart::heart::heart:
left a message on April 9, 2021:
My Dear Line Sister Brenda,
I thank God for you. For your spirit. For your love. You fought the Good Fight and finished the race. You did it with strength, resilience and with the love of your life, David by your side every step of the way. I thank the Lord for blessing you with a truly caring husband.
Rest now and rejoice in peace. We will see you on the other side. I love you and will miss you dearly.
Forever and Sisterly,
Jamesa Moone Hunter
Spring 1994, #4
Cincinnati Queen City Alumni Chapter
Queens of the N.I.L.E.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Soror McCaskill was one of the first Sorors of the chapter who greeted me and embraced me when I first visited and later joined the Cincinnati Queen City Alumnae Chapter when I relocted to the Midwest. She immediately engaged me and gently nudged me to become quite active in the chapter and I will never forget her enouragement and support.
My sincerest condolensces to David and her entire family. She is a genuine jewel in God's treasure chest and will be greatly missed.
Sincerely,
Soror Deborah Ingram
Newark, DE
left a message on April 9, 2021:
I will never forget your thirst for more education. We both knew we would go away to college to start our careers. It was fun trying to figure it all out at the ages of 16 and 17. You will be missed, my friend. I never had a sister until I met you. My heartfelt sympathy to David and the Family for your loss. Dr. Carol Jenkins Neil
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda, my friend first, then my Soror later, with such charm, grace and style - I hope you knew how much of an impact you made in my life through our 30 years of friendship!!! I will cherish each moment and fondly remember your beautiful smile, those gorgeous eyes, your quick wit and giving spirt.
David, thank you for sharing your greatest blessing and gift with us all, your wife and soulmate -- Brenda. Peace be with you, David and may you find the strength you need in HIS care.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda was the best sister-in-law anyone could have. She had exquisite taste in art, fashion, and design, and was a phenomenal conversationalist: she was comfortable talking sports, politics, movies, and current events. As fellow animal lovers, it always was a pleasure to talk about how our pets acted as if they own us, instead of the other way around. And she loved to laugh! She is laughing in heaven now because I am fixing the typos in my previous post after a long workday and resending my post :-). She was much more careful and deliberate than I will ever be! I will miss her.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda was the best-sister-in-law anyone could have. She has exquisite taste in art, fashion, and desing, and was a phenomenal conversationailis: she was comfortably talking sports, politics, movies, and current events. As fellow animal lovers, it always was a pleasure to talk about how our pets acted as if they own us, instead of the other way around. And she loved to laugh! I will miss her.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda, Many memories from our line and Cincinnati Queen City Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Many prayers to David and family.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
I fondly remember Brenda when she worked at the Swing Rd. site and David as well. My heartfelt condolences to David and family.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
My deepest sympathy David and family. Sending you prayers of strength and comfort today and the difficult days ahead. Brenda was a beautiful Soror, neighbor and colleague. She will be missed.
Angela Chisley
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda was a beautiful soul and a friend to every person she met. Rest in Peace.
left a message on April 8, 2021:
Brenda and I took a biology class together in high school. We were cousins and enjoyed working on experiments together. I will never forget her warm smile! My deepest sympathy to the family.
left a message on April 8, 2021:
Brenda always had a smile. She was so caring and wanted to catch up on what was going on with our family. She called us her snow angels and I know she is now our angel looking over us from Heaven. Rest In Peace Brenda and enjoy God’s love in His Holy Kingdom.
left a message on April 8, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 8, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 8, 2021:
Brenda and I were members of Cincinnati Queen City Alumnae and spent numerous hours working on committees... I will always remember her caring approach... David sorry for your loss... RIP Soror we will meet again in Omega Omega... Cheryl Williams
left a message on April 8, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 7, 2021:
Soror Brenda McCaskill was instrumental in my initiation into our illustrious sisterhood, Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc. Her she poses with my line sisters in Spring 1998. Her bright smile and leadership will truly be missed.
left a message on April 7, 2021:
You have our deepest condolences on your loss. Brenda was a great person and a cherished Soror. We will cherish great memories of our time together. We will miss her greatly and she will be in our thoughts and prayers. David please know that you and the family have our heartfelt sympathies.
Laura Farris & Michelle Hurley
left a message on April 7, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 7, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 7, 2021:
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left a message on April 7, 2021:
From your neighbors Lynn & Adam at 8084 purchased the Arrive in Style for the family of Brenda Valencia McCaskill.
Thompson, Hall and Jordan Funeral Home
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Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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left a message on April 14, 2021:
Thank God for the life of Brenda a Beautiful Warm and Kind Trail Blazer! #Class82
left a message on April 12, 2021:
Remembering A Beautiful Classmate....
left a message on April 11, 2021:
We remember Brenda as an energetic, enthusiastic, warm-hearted and compassionate cousin. She was an avid reader and a well-rounded person of various subjects. Her focus on her studies in high school led her to further her education and have a successful career. We will deeply miss her smile down here but we have faith that she is smiling with the angels in heavens. We pray her family will find peace and comfort in knowing God had a plan for her life and she will continue being a blessing to the lives she touched. Love from; Eugene Cuthbert and family, Harold Cuthbert and family, Herbert Cuthbert and family, Lillie Cuthbert Newsome and family, and Willie Cuthbert.
left a message on April 11, 2021:
Condolences Family. I meet Brenda when she was a member of Las Amiga,Inc.She was an unforgettably person.,So smart,friendly and a smile that would bring :blush: to every situation. She was a member of The Brenda Club (a group of six Brenda's in Las Amigas) We missed her when she became inactive,but never failed to mention her at our annual photo sessions at our Conclave.David may you and the family find comfort in the many memories you shared :heart:. RIP Brenda and be surrounded in ORCHIDS.
left a message on April 10, 2021:
David and McCaskill family ...Peace and prayer to you. Brenda...What a wonderful soul. What a wonderful Soror who always did things with a quiet sense of confidence. Never boastful, but ALWAYS purposeful. Definitely a QUEEN of the N.I.L.E. REST IN HEAVENLY PEACE IN HIS HANDS. :heart::small_red_triangle:
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
left a message on April 10, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Simply Elegant Spathiphyllum was purchased for the family of Brenda Valencia McCaskill.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Pretty Please was purchased for the family of Brenda Valencia McCaskill.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Prayers going up for Brenda, David and Family. Neighborhood will miss Brenda. Shall always remember great time bowling with my teammates.
Vernon Thompson
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda was a kind, gentle, caring, and beloved member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. who will be greatly missed by many. Sending my heartfelt condolences to David and the McCaskill family during this difficult time. Praying the fond memories of Brenda will sustain you and provide comfort in the days ahead.
Toni Ward, former member Cincinnati Alumnae Chapter
left a message on April 9, 2021:
A webcast video has been added.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda is “one of a kind”. We had lost touch with one another over the past years. I thought of her a few weeks ago while looking at some of my artwork. While we were working together, we became great friends and both of us started collecting art. Some of the same Charles Bibbs’ pieces! I will forever cherish the memories of the times we spent together - talking, laughing, eating, working, and crying. One of the most genuine and giving hearts of anyone I know.
To David and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers and may God give you comfort. Rest In Peace, Brenda.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 9, 2021:
David and family -
We are so sorry for your loss. We have very fond memories of the both of you, and so enjoyed talking over the fence so often. A few of my favorite memories, were the one time when Brenda’s brother was doing some yard work for you in the front, and Joe told Brenda something like “are you putting down yard clue to keep the stones down”...Joe of course was only kidding, but it gave us both a chuckle. Another memory was one of our visits in your backyard and I had brought Ginger over. She loved water, and you had a large water bowl for Chelsea, and Ginger tried to get in the bowl to lay down like it was a pool just for her, haha. We had some great memories, and I have so many lovely Longaberger baskets that I think of her when I use.
Please know you are in our thoughts, and we play that God gives you comfort and healing at this time.
Love,
Sandy, Joe, Matthew and Austin Robillard
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda was a kind neighbor that was one of the first people to welcome us to the neighborhood. She always had a lovely smile and a warm greeting when she walked her dog. Dave, you have my great sympathy for losing a wonderful soul mate. Stay safe and stay strong.
Paul Dorger
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Millennial Q.U.E.E.N.S, Spr. 2000 purchased the Tender Tribute for the family of Brenda Valencia McCaskill.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
I light a candle for my dear friend and Soror Brenda. We did so many things together which enlightened both our lives. I will miss you dear friend.:small_red_triangle::small_red_triangle::small_red_triangle::heart::heart::heart:
left a message on April 9, 2021:
My Dear Line Sister Brenda,
I thank God for you. For your spirit. For your love. You fought the Good Fight and finished the race. You did it with strength, resilience and with the love of your life, David by your side every step of the way. I thank the Lord for blessing you with a truly caring husband.
Rest now and rejoice in peace. We will see you on the other side. I love you and will miss you dearly.
Forever and Sisterly,
Jamesa Moone Hunter
Spring 1994, #4
Cincinnati Queen City Alumni Chapter
Queens of the N.I.L.E.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Soror McCaskill was one of the first Sorors of the chapter who greeted me and embraced me when I first visited and later joined the Cincinnati Queen City Alumnae Chapter when I relocted to the Midwest. She immediately engaged me and gently nudged me to become quite active in the chapter and I will never forget her enouragement and support.
My sincerest condolensces to David and her entire family. She is a genuine jewel in God's treasure chest and will be greatly missed.
Sincerely,
Soror Deborah Ingram
Newark, DE
left a message on April 9, 2021:
I will never forget your thirst for more education. We both knew we would go away to college to start our careers. It was fun trying to figure it all out at the ages of 16 and 17. You will be missed, my friend. I never had a sister until I met you. My heartfelt sympathy to David and the Family for your loss. Dr. Carol Jenkins Neil
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda, my friend first, then my Soror later, with such charm, grace and style - I hope you knew how much of an impact you made in my life through our 30 years of friendship!!! I will cherish each moment and fondly remember your beautiful smile, those gorgeous eyes, your quick wit and giving spirt.
David, thank you for sharing your greatest blessing and gift with us all, your wife and soulmate -- Brenda. Peace be with you, David and may you find the strength you need in HIS care.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda was the best sister-in-law anyone could have. She had exquisite taste in art, fashion, and design, and was a phenomenal conversationalist: she was comfortable talking sports, politics, movies, and current events. As fellow animal lovers, it always was a pleasure to talk about how our pets acted as if they own us, instead of the other way around. And she loved to laugh! She is laughing in heaven now because I am fixing the typos in my previous post after a long workday and resending my post :-). She was much more careful and deliberate than I will ever be! I will miss her.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda was the best-sister-in-law anyone could have. She has exquisite taste in art, fashion, and desing, and was a phenomenal conversationailis: she was comfortably talking sports, politics, movies, and current events. As fellow animal lovers, it always was a pleasure to talk about how our pets acted as if they own us, instead of the other way around. And she loved to laugh! I will miss her.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda, Many memories from our line and Cincinnati Queen City Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Many prayers to David and family.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
I fondly remember Brenda when she worked at the Swing Rd. site and David as well. My heartfelt condolences to David and family.
left a message on April 9, 2021:
My deepest sympathy David and family. Sending you prayers of strength and comfort today and the difficult days ahead. Brenda was a beautiful Soror, neighbor and colleague. She will be missed.
Angela Chisley
left a message on April 9, 2021:
Brenda was a beautiful soul and a friend to every person she met. Rest in Peace.
left a message on April 8, 2021:
Brenda and I took a biology class together in high school. We were cousins and enjoyed working on experiments together. I will never forget her warm smile! My deepest sympathy to the family.
left a message on April 8, 2021:
Brenda always had a smile. She was so caring and wanted to catch up on what was going on with our family. She called us her snow angels and I know she is now our angel looking over us from Heaven. Rest In Peace Brenda and enjoy God’s love in His Holy Kingdom.
left a message on April 8, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 8, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 8, 2021:
Brenda and I were members of Cincinnati Queen City Alumnae and spent numerous hours working on committees... I will always remember her caring approach... David sorry for your loss... RIP Soror we will meet again in Omega Omega... Cheryl Williams
left a message on April 8, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 7, 2021:
Soror Brenda McCaskill was instrumental in my initiation into our illustrious sisterhood, Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc. Her she poses with my line sisters in Spring 1998. Her bright smile and leadership will truly be missed.
left a message on April 7, 2021:
You have our deepest condolences on your loss. Brenda was a great person and a cherished Soror. We will cherish great memories of our time together. We will miss her greatly and she will be in our thoughts and prayers. David please know that you and the family have our heartfelt sympathies.
Laura Farris & Michelle Hurley
left a message on April 7, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 7, 2021:
Lit a candle in memory of Brenda Valencia McCaskill
left a message on April 7, 2021:
1 file added to the tribute wall
left a message on April 7, 2021:
From your neighbors Lynn & Adam at 8084 purchased the Arrive in Style for the family of Brenda Valencia McCaskill.
Thompson, Hall and Jordan Funeral Home
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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